Happy Memorial Day

10:02 PM Monday, May 26, 2008

I think I would be a fool if I didn't take just a brief moment to share our gratitude for the service of so many men and women who have sacrificed to serve our country. I suppose you could call me a patriot. I am wonderfully imbued with this special gift in part because of my dad. In 1973 he joined the Navy. He spent 30 years in uniform honorably serving this country. My mom stood faithfully next to his side, raising me and keeping our home.

The armed forces have always inspired me. Movies, books and songs are written about great events in our history that in some cases could only happen because a guy stood up and grabbed a rifle and did something heoric. Memorial Day was first celebrated as a national holiday in 1868, at a time when the U.S. Civil War was still fresh in the minds of everyone. It was so named in honor of those that gave the lasting and eternal sacrifice, on both sides of that conflict. It did not become an official holiday until 1967. On this day and again on Veteran's Day, I often think of the words of Abraham Lincoln.

In 1864, Lincoln was encouraged to write a letter to Mrs. Lydia Bixby. It was thought that she had just lost her 5th son since the onset of war. Lincoln's letter to her is prescient:
"Dear Madam,
I have been shown in the files of the War Department a statement of the Adjutant General of Massachusetts that you are the mother of five sons who have died gloriously on the field of battle.
I feel how weak and fruitless must be any word of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering you the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic they died to save.
I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom.
Yours, very sincerely and respectfully,
A. Lincoln"
Today, as we grilled hamburgers and hot dogs, and flew American Flags, I hope we uttered the words Liberty and Freedom with solemn respect for those like my father, my uncle, and many generations of my grandfathers, who never said that the hill was too hard to climb, the seas to rough to sail, or the air too thick to fly. May God continue to bless America.

Just checking the date and it appears that we last blogged almost three weeks ago. That just won't do! Well, today is Memorial Day. As I think back to the last week I found it fitting that I spent two and half days of it in Boston, in the cradle of our fair country. I travelled to Boston on a business trip, but I had some time with one of my colleagues to do a bit of sightseeing.

We visited "Old Ironsides," the U.S.S. Constitution. She's the oldest warship afloat in the world. I've been to see her a couple of times now, but it never ceases to amaze me everytime. She's a commissioned vessel, so the men and women who are priviliged to be her crew are active duty Navy personnel.

Now, I've been to Boston about 4 times. Each time, I've really wanted to see John Adam's house. He's a bit of a hero of mine and I've had no luck taking the tour of his birthplace and the home that he and Abigail lived in until they died. Well, this trip, I got my chance. There's been a heightened amount of traffic lately given the popularity of the HBO series that recently aired. There are three parts to the tour. First, you see the birthplace homes of John Adams (our 2nd President) and his son John Quincy Adams (our 6th President).

The National Park Service doesn't let you take pictures inside. The homes sit on their original foundations and the structures themselves are the original. Of course, the siding and interior "decorations" have been remodeled for a variety of reasons. The yellow house above is the home of John Adams. It was the first home that he and Abigail lived in when they got married. The brown house is the home where John was born. I'm standing at the doorway of the yellow house, taking a picture of the brown house... to give you an idea of perspective. The proximity was very common in the 18th centry, I'm told.
The 2nd stop on the tour is the old house. This is "Peacefield." John and Abigail purchased this property when they returned from England, after the Revolution.
Ajoining the homesite is a place where John Adams grandson, Charles Francis Adams constructed the first ever presidential library. In 1870, the structure was completed and it houses over 12,000 volumes. There is little of the Adams presidency in the library. Instead, the volumes are all books that John and his son John Quincy read. The tilework inside is imported Italian tile. The pattern is ornate and designed by Charles Francis himself... there is an error in the tilework, a piece purposely put out of place. It was Charles way of telling the world that only God was perfect. I wish we were allowed to take photos inside. The library was my favorite part of this two hour time-travel.

The last stop is United First Parish Church in Quincy, Mass. We drove by, but didn't get out. It's the burial place of John Adams, his wife Abigail, John Quincy Adams and his wife Louisa are entombed. It is the only place where two related presidents and their wives are buried in the same place...

Twilight Trailer

5:42 PM Thursday, May 08, 2008

William and his blankie

1:35 PM Tuesday, May 06, 2008


For all of you who know Charlotte she is a thumb sucker and she loves her "bankelie". William has discovered that he needs a blankie. When he sees it and can get to it, he grabs it and walks around the house with it. He will lay it on the floor and put his head down on it and scoot across the floor. He is such a funny little boy. His 2 top mollers are coming in and I think he is getting teeth on the bottom as well. So needless to say he is a really fussy and grumpy kid these days.


Emily was baptized on May 3, 2008 by her dad John Knotwell. Both of her families were there to celebrate this special day. She was so nervous about getting baptized that she was in tears before she walked out to get in the water. We had to take a couple of deep breaths and calm her down. I think she was crying because I started crying when I saw her in her white jumpsuit. I was so proud of her and I had remembered my special day oh so many decades ago. Once she got baptized, she was all smiles and ready to be a member of our church. John and I gave her some new scriptures for her baptism and she was so excited to start reading them and marking them. We explained that she should mark the versus that made her feel happy and think about Jesus. So I went in to check on her while she was reading and she had marked a scripture. I looked over to read the verse and the verse was 1 Nephi 1:2. After you read this verse you will see why this is so cute.

Emily had such a fun birthday. She woke up to having the kitchen all decorated for a party. Charlotte was funny when she saw the kitchen, she came into our bedroom and said " Gankgoo (thank you) for my party!" She had fun helping Em open her gifts. Emily loves playing in the swimming pool, so we got her some snorkeling gear. She is also learning to tell time so while in New York we scored a sweet deal on a knock off watch. Emily has really been into cooking things and helping with dinner. Her Nana made her the CUTEST apron just her size. The picture certainly does not do it justice. John and I surprised Em and checked her out of school and took her to Red Robin for lunch. We figured since we couldn't go out to dinner for her birthday, this would be just as fun. Emily got to go with her dad Jared that evening and have yet another party. She got to go to the Mayan and watch the half naked men jump off the cliffs. She has become such a beautiful girl and I love watching her grow and learn.


Happy Birthday Emily!

7:52 AM Thursday, May 01, 2008


Today is Emily's 8th Birthday! She has really changed over the past year and I am really proud of her. She is the best big sister to William, Charlotte and her other sister Regan. She is always willing to help around the house and take care of things for me. She is so funny and she is always making us laugh. Her passion for Hannah Montana, The Jonas Brothers, and basically the whole Disney scene is really fun for us. She inspires Charlotte to be like her and I love to see Charlotte copy her big sis (most of the time). Emily is getting baptized on Saturday and she is so nervous about going under the water. I am so happy that she is ready to take this step in her life to better it and make her a better person too. I will post her pics from that.

My Jill

7:08 AM Wednesday, April 30, 2008


I arrived in New York on Monday for a conference for work - and Jill followed later on Thursday. On Tuesday evening my colleagues and I walked from Greenwich Villiage up to Times Square. We passed this beautiful park called Bryant Park. As we walked through it, I knew I had to get pictures of Jill in it. So, on our last day in the city, we found our way over here and I snapped about 30 shots of her.
My beautiful wife is my everything. She supports me when I'm having a rough day and takes care of me when I need a good kick in the butt. She's a phenomenal mother to our 3 children and the best friend I could ever ask for. I'm so glad we could enjoy those few days together.

Central Park

7:16 PM Tuesday, April 29, 2008

A pano that I feel represents some of the charm of Central Park. I wish I could tell you about all the charm and history of this remarkable park. It's a completely man made park. In fact, nothing in the park is native, except the big mounds of shist stone prevalent throughout the park. The trees were planted as park of the parks creation... and the trails and benches, well, you get the picture.

We decided, spontaneously, to take a rickshaw ride through central park. It was a guided ride. Our tour guide was Helen, from Namibia. She spoke exceptional English and knew her stuff. She took us on a grand journey through not only the park, but all the famous people that have either lived or still do live in the apartment buildings that surround this beautiful place. Central Park is not run by the City of New York. In fact, it is run by a non-profit conservancy that manages the park and it's structures. The conservancy was initially run by a group of women, the women that lived in the apartments surrounding the park itself. They don't own it now, but they used to. Central park has a zoo inside, a huge lake with row boats, a famous restaurant called The Boat House, like 5 billion trees and some fountains. Oh, yeah, and they also have people, 25 million people visit Central Park... making it the most visited city park in America. 843 acres of lushly landscaped gardens and paths. Perhaps the most unique thing about it was that it sits in the heart of arguably one of the busiest places in the world. Literally, you can be in Central Park and not even realize you are sitting in Midtown Manhattan.


The San Remo building. Home to Bono and Steven Spielberg. It only costs a cool $50 million to buy one of these apartments. It was also used in the movie Ghostbusters.

The Dakota. Home to John Lennon. In fact, he was killed, right there, in front of the building in December 1980. When Lennon was killed, a makeshift memorial was created on the steps of the building. After a while, the owners were pretty upset about the condition of the entrance. So, they asked Yoko Ono (Lennon's wife - she still lives there and now owns 50% of the building) to do something about it. Ono asked the Central Park Conservancy if she could move the "shrine" into the park. They told her no. So, she offered them 1.2 million and they accepted. Money talks. An Italian Beatles fan created this beautiful mosaic and donated it to Central Park.

This memorial is located in The Strawberry Fields portion of Central Park. Named after a Beatles song written by Lennon about an orphanage in his hometown of Liverpool, England.


You might recognize this very famous fountain. It was memorialized in the opening credits of the hit comedy sitcom Friends. The six of them danced in the fountain and kicked water at themselves.


Jill and I both decided that we wanted to see Grand Central Station. It's an architectural wonder. The ceiling is extremely high and the terminal feels very open... quite a contrast in the condensed spaces of New York City. Grand Central is actually a major hub for all kinds of rail and bus traffic. From there, it's a quick 3 minute ride on the subway to Times Square, one of the marvels on Manhattan.
One very interesting thing about Grand Central was that it was the only place in the city where we saw lots of armed National Guardsman. They were standing side by side with NYPD, guarding this very busy transportation hub.
Where we were standing to take the picture was on a landing that allowed access to a restaurant... yep, right there in Grand Central Terminal!

My New York Post

7:33 PM Monday, April 28, 2008

I know that Jill doesn't appreciate this stuff as much as I do, so I don't expect her to publish it. However, for the rest of you - you get the joy of learning something on our blog too!
I am a huge National Park fanatic - and yes, I'm a real fanatic about it. I can attribute my sensation with these places due to my passionate patriotism. I joked many times that Lady Liberty is the only other woman in my life. I wish I could claim ingenuity in that comment, but I stole it from someone who I greatly admire- Ronald Reagan.

Every place we visit inevitably has a National Park stop along the way. There are 391 National Park "units" in the country. These are subdivided into many categories such as National Parks, National Monuments, National Seashores, etc. These places are located in every state of the union (and territories) except Delaware. If you get the chance to visit one, please do so and look for opportunities to appreciate it. Many sacrifices have been made on our behalf for us to be able to appreciate this great land of ours. I am grateful to the men and woman who have given service to our country. Many have given their lives (many of these places are monuments to those great ones that have come before) so that we might live today in freedom and liberty.

As you wait for the ferry to Ellis Island (it's a dependent unit of the Statue of Liberty National Monument), you are in the shadow of this beautiful building. It's the Central Railroad of New Jersey's terminal in Jersey City. It was build in 1864 and is quite a fun architectural site to look at from the outside. It is no longer operational but from what I have read, it seems to have been a very busy part of the New Jersey Railroad in the late 1800s.

On the way to Ellis Island, you watch a beautiful Manhattan skyline whiz by. The island of Manhattan is a large pile of shist (yes, that's the correct spelling) stone. It's an extremely solid stone and supports the tall skyscrapers the adorn the island.

What you may or may not know that is that Manhattan island is part of 5 boroughs (counties) that make up New York City. Ready... Staten Island, Brooklyn, Queens, The Bronx and finally Manhattan Island. All of them are islands except the Bronx, which is connected to the main part of New York State.
Ellis Island is majestic today. The restoration efforts that began in the 1990's have created a wonderful place of history and storytelling. An audio tour is available for a very inexpensive fee. In fact, it only costs $18 for the ferry ride to these two sites and for the audio tour at both sites as well. Such a bargain for New York City.

As I was walking through the immigration center, I thought about the 20 million people from all over the world that found a home in America. They had to go through quite the ordeal to become a citizen of our country. Quite the contrast to the requirements of today.

As you gaze slightly south of Ellis Island you see beautiful Liberty Island, named for it's famed occupant, standing tall welcoming in the many visitors to New York each year (44 million last year).


The Statue of Liberty has a famous story to go along with her famous presence. I encourage you to take a little time to understand the story of how she got here. It's quite remarkable. The story takes place over almost ten years of our history. The statue itself was a gift from the people of France to the people of the United States. America was responsible to furnish the pedestal on which she stands. In the construction process, we ran out of money. Joseph Pulitzer, a great American journalist and publisher of The World wrote to the people of New York and encouraged them to donate to the statue. He printed the names of every single individual who donated in his newspaper... even the ones who only donated a penny. Pulitzer was a Hungarian immigrant who believed that the statue should be a truly American monument. He succeeded in raising $100,000 dollars (keep in mind this was 1876... that was a lot of money back then) and all of it was raised by regular American folks who wanted the statue here. It wasn't until World War I that Americans actually began to associate the monument as something American, rather than French. I'm sure glad she's here.

Castle Clinton National Monument
Castle Clinton National Monument is the headquarters for the Statue of Liberty Tour. It served as part of the fortifications around New York during the Battle of 1812. Some of the fort remains, but it now the centerpiece of Battery Park - a park at the end of Manhattan Island.

The fort itself is mostly a round structure, but they have done some archaeological digging to expose some of the outer walls. All in all, not my favorite of the sites I've ever seen. The exhibits are weak. Most people walk through here to get onto the ferry to the statue and probably don't even know they are in a National Monument.

Federal Hall
My reason for liking this place has nothing to do with the fact that I got my picture taken next to George Washington... The address is 26 Wall Street... and Washington stares proudly at the New York Stock Exchange. Fitting considering that he helped create the biggest and strongest economy in the world. He stands upon one of the richest streets in the world too, right smack dab between the Trump Building and Holy Trinity Church (the oldest church in New York). Federal Hall was the place where George Washington was inaugurated as the first President of the United States.

Theodore Roosevelt's Birth Home
Teddy Roosevelt spent the first 15 years of his life here. It's in the Flatiron District of Midtown Manhattan... named for the iron shaped building at it's center. Roosevelt's house is very small compared to the huge buildings surrounding it. It seems awkward and out of place, which makes it very cool to look at. Unfortunately, it was closed when we got there... on Sunday. Who would have thought.






U.S. Grant Burial Mausoleum
Truly one of the strangest places I have every been. The place is located in Harlem, right next to Riverside Church. We were there on April 27th... coincidentally, that was Grant's birthday. Hence, the reason the place is decked out in flags everywhere. Grant was the 18th President of the United States. Before that, he was the Commanding General of the United States... the first one to hold that title since George Washington. His administration was known as the most corrupt administration in our history. Not because of him, but because of his cabinet. Oddly, he died a very, very poor man. He spent the last few years of his life battling a very acute case of throat cancer, but was offered 70% of the proceeds of his memoirs. He wrote them diligently and died two weeks before they were printed. His widow received $450,000 for the sale of the two volumes... a gigantic sum of money in 1876. His last donation was to his family - he was finally able to take care of them.

Jason Priestly was in New York promoting Mario Kart for the Wii. We went to Rockefeller Plaza and there was alot of comotion, so of course we went over to see what was going on. John couldn't have cared less, but I am a star struck idiot! I was really hoping to see a bigger star like J. Lo or Madonna shopping.

We went to Wall Street and saw the Stock Exchange. So exciting!


This is the sculpture that stood in the Plaza of the Twin Towers. It was pretty beat up but in really good condition considering what took place. Ground Zero was nothing exciting, all that was there was a large construction sight. I know all of us want to see some kind of after math from that sad day, but there wasn't anything to write home about.

We walked through Battery Park when we got off the ferry from Ellis Island. There were street performers out doing there thang. This was so fun to watch these men do tricks. They made it so fun by interacting with the audience and promoting not doing drugs.



Riding the Metro is a part of life in New York. Free spirits come to the Metro terminals and perform their art. One day a man with an electric violin was playing, this lady was rockin the metro while singing and others played other instruments or sang as well. I am so grateful for cars and the quiet.


This is the entrance to Ellis Island visitors center. John and I did the audio tour and really enjoyed it. We took a fairy to the Island and then off to the statue.
Inside the Ellis Island building.
Lady Liberty
Lady Liberty and her secret admirer.